5 REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL

BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP 

It’s evidently true that many of young people in this generation love relationships, since they believe that through a relationship you got much to gain. They forget that it’s through the same relationship that they got much to lose and maybe at times gain nothing out of it. Many of those who have been in a relationship can agree with me that relationship is like waking up every morning trying so hard to maintain it.

Here are some of the reasons why relationships fail:-

1.      FREQUENT CHATS, CALLS & HANGOUTS

Its obvious and normal for people in a relationship to miss each other and want to have lot of time together but most of this doesn’t make the relationship work very fluently and smooth since many of the couples try to misuse and use the moments in a wrong way.

2.      HAVING TOO MUCH TRUST ON ONE PARTNER

In many relationships, you find that one partner has all his trust on the other. This is mainly caused by previous or frequent pumping of goodies to the partner. Trusting one another is a good and a great feature in a relationship, I agree but it at times becomes a bother and distort of the relationship. All those who are in a relationship need to know that TRUST is gained through efforts.

3.      RELUCTANT

This reason why many of nowadays relationships fail. Reluctant is a way or a mode of neglect or avoidance. Those who are in a relationship at times they tend to be so reluctant to adhere to some of the relationship boundaries and hence lead to a quarrel and later a breakout of the relationship. 

4.      FEAR OF SPEAKING OUT

You may find that many of those in a relationship most of the female partner tends to fear speaking out her mind to her close partner due to some unexplainable reasons. Female genders have the feature that they might say something that might make the male partner run off the relationship statues.

5.      UNREALISTIC PROMISES

When in a relationship you find that the couples tend to feel so much in love such that they start promising each other of unrealistic future events that they opt to happen to them. Through this a strong believe of the events is created in their minds for a very short time. 

It’s the high time couples realized that to be ion a relationship and not only just a relationship but a healthy one it really requires both parties strong efforts to keep it growing healthy every day of their times.

I wish all those who are in a relationship best of lucks. To those who are about to get into relationship I would love to advice them to follow what they want and think is the best.