Sometimes we tend to blame our partners for the sudden change in their love and care towards us. We carry all the blame and false accusations and load it on them. We make our own false assumptions and we believe in them. We then conclude by saying that they no longer love or care about us, they have new partners they are dating, they love and many other related words. But we think and speak all that without thinking twice about the way we also treat them.
Sometimes it's us who change the way we treat our partners and then they also get to change the way they treat us. We stop caring and showing them love, we make ourselves unavailable, we become so nagging and unappreciative, and we completely change our behaviors and attitudes towards them.
So, from today and onwards, before you blame or confront your partner for the sudden change in their love and care towards you, always first take a look at yourself and see if you also still give them the same love and care. If you notice that you changed a little bit, then probably that could be one of the reasons why your partner also changed. Then get yourself together and work on yourself and see if they won't bring back the sweet old love they had. If they don't, then confront them about it but in a calm and mature way so that it doesn't turn into a big fight. I’m sure if they truly love you like the way they claim, they’ll apologize where they went wrong and bring back the old love.
Sometimes it's us who change the way we treat our partners and then they also get to change the way they treat us. We stop caring and showing them love, we make ourselves unavailable, we become so nagging and unappreciative, and we completely change our behaviors and attitudes towards them.
So, from today and onwards, before you blame or confront your partner for the sudden change in their love and care towards you, always first take a look at yourself and see if you also still give them the same love and care. If you notice that you changed a little bit, then probably that could be one of the reasons why your partner also changed. Then get yourself together and work on yourself and see if they won't bring back the sweet old love they had. If they don't, then confront them about it but in a calm and mature way so that it doesn't turn into a big fight. I’m sure if they truly love you like the way they claim, they’ll apologize where they went wrong and bring back the old love.
great info
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