THIS IS WHAT STICKING TO YOUR PAST WILL DO TO YOU

I never used to understand why some people are very bitter and always complaining about everything untill I moved to my current location. At first meeting new people and mingling with them you soon start to notice that some people around are friendly and some are not. Before you judge them I would advice you take some time to know them better.

There is this kind of people who will compare everything now against how it was back in those days. They talk about the security now and back in those days, they talk about ministry now and how it was back in those days, they talk about young people now and back in those days and pastors now and back in those days.

Comparing things right now and how they used to be in a way can make you realize that everything keeps getting different and more often than not, things get either expensive or bad. If you constantly get stuck to the way things used to be, you are going to end up frustrated. Change is the only constant. Get used to it, the past will never come back. Get over your past relationships, your past life, your good and bad records. Get over your mistakes and losses. Learn from them, don't get stuck there, even if you cry forever it wont help.

Learn to adopt to today, make new friends if you have to and reach out and adjust to the change that comes. You don't want to be swept by the wave of change and be alone stuck in the "during our days" estate.